A Working Mom's Secret to Success on Valentine's Day: Manage Expectations...

Lady celebrating Valentine's Day at Eddie V's "To love oneself is the beginning of a lifelong romance." - Oscar Wilde  Greetings from Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania! Things have been busy. I am still a working mom of three, working full time who is trying to make a difference. I do a lot of things and try to be present so that I can learn from them. I share them on this blog so that we can learn together. Below are some thoughts, hacks, and/or lessons that I have learned from navigating my world. The roots of Valentine’s Day roots go back to St. Valentine, a priest in the early Christian Church known for his compassion and commitment to love. He was a defender of faith, hope, and kindness, reminding us that love is not just a feeling—it’s an action. And, this year I have learned that being free on Valentine's Day is better than living a lie. Valentine's Day, like Christmas, comes every year. However, unlike Christmas, Valentine's Day is about romantic love an...

Lessons Learned from my Toddler

Like most moms I am convinced that my baby is blessed with mystical powers. She has been the most wonderful addition to both of our families.  It is as if we were all waiting for her to be complete and didn’t know it. Even though she does not speak English yet, and we are unable to understand her wonderfully melodic language, she has taught us quite a lot. 

Before she arrived I was quite capable of rushing through a day performing tasks without taking the time to have any serious reflection. Now, she makes me pause. It's hard to change a dirty diaper without paying attention! 
Also, the wonder with which she greets the world every day reminds me that it can be a magical place. She has also reminded me that every day is an opportunity to experience great joy.
On this particular Sunday while she is napping I am reflecting on things she has taught me.  Here are some of the lessons in no particular order.

1.       Banana can be a perfectly acceptable hair pomade.

2.       One sock is somehow better than two.

3.       Shoes are optional, and generally a nuisance.

4.       If you fall against an inanimate object, hitting and yelling at it makes you feel better.

5.       A more perfect world is only one nap away.

6.       Food off of someone else’s plate always tastes better.  It’s a fact.

7.       Sitting still is for losers. Climbing up the stairs repeatedly is where the action is.

8.       A kiss from someone you love can make everything better.

9.       Sometimes the package is just as much fun as the present.

10.   Every day is an opportunity to grow, learn, and laugh.
(The photo is from the playground. It looks like she's paying homage to Michael Jordan!)

Here’s to continuing to taking the time to reflect!
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Comments

RAHKed said…
Thanks for the follow, I'm returning the follow. I must say your list of reflections cracked me up but I can't deny they are spot on! Kids teach us so much!
momto8 said…
You are enjoying your daughter...a blessing for all of you!