A Working Mom's Secret to Success on Valentine's Day: Manage Expectations...

Lady celebrating Valentine's Day at Eddie V's "To love oneself is the beginning of a lifelong romance." - Oscar Wilde  Greetings from Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania! Things have been busy. I am still a working mom of three, working full time who is trying to make a difference. I do a lot of things and try to be present so that I can learn from them. I share them on this blog so that we can learn together. Below are some thoughts, hacks, and/or lessons that I have learned from navigating my world. The roots of Valentine’s Day roots go back to St. Valentine, a priest in the early Christian Church known for his compassion and commitment to love. He was a defender of faith, hope, and kindness, reminding us that love is not just a feeling—it’s an action. And, this year I have learned that being free on Valentine's Day is better than living a lie. Valentine's Day, like Christmas, comes every year. However, unlike Christmas, Valentine's Day is about romantic love an...

Tis the Season for Christmas Cards!


Before I had a baby I generally sent Christmas cards. I think that people liked them, but I don’t believe that there was any expectation by the recipients.


My cards were pretty. Sometimes I got them from the Metropolitan Museum of Art. I selected them for their appeal and there messages.  They were nice cards.  A few even landed on my grandmother’s refrigerator affixed with a magnet. Still, if I skipped a year nobody seemed to care.

Apparently after you have a child things change.  The day after Thanksgiving my eighty-five year old uncle told my mother that he was looking for my Christmas card.

Now there’s pressure.

Last year I sent a photo card of the baby. So, I figured that’s what my uncle was looking for. In order to send a photo card I needed an appropriate photo. However, I had no budget. We hired a professional photographer for the baby’s first birthday party and had lots of photos from there. But with the damned Facebook those photos have been seen far and wide. I also have posted them on this blog. So, I can’t use them on the Christmas card.

So what’s a mommy to do?  Convince the baby that playing photo session is the next best thing to breast milk!

Despite my persuasive skills, as you can see from the photos, she was not convinced.   Like her mama, she has a mind of her own. And she found the props much too interesting to stay still. I couldn’t even bribe her to pose. And every time I had the perfect shot, the friggin’ camera would
stall. 

Oh well, there’s still some daylight left. When she wakes up from her nap the "photo games" shall resume. I may just get the perfect shot and make my uncle’s Christmas dreams come true.  Here’s hoping!






Comments

momto8 said…
I love the outfit! the pictures really are fun!
The outfit really is the best! Good luck with the photo shoot part 2!
ff said…
Way cute! Christmas cards are fun to get, but a pain to send out. Good luck with this year's edition!