One Secret to Success as a Working Mom: Stay Open to New Experiences

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In the movie Love Jones , the male lead says, "romance is about the possibility of the thing." I agree with that. However, I think that the concept is more universal. life--truly living--is about the possibility of the thing. For a while, I was sleep walking through life, doing what was required without truly embracing it. Recent events have caused me to re-evaluate that and to embrace life and all of its limitless possibilities.   And romance, is about love. Over the past year I have become committed to falling back in love with my life. New relationships have made that love affair possible. And, I don't take them for granted. Creating space for new relationships and making new friends as a single, working mom, and creating space is not easy. But it is necessary. For that reason, I have committed to making new friendships, keeping the old productive ones, and enjoying them all--in the midst of working, parenting, and adulting . I have learned that I have not experien...
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Time Flies When you Have a Toddler!

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Like most working people I have always thought that weekends go by too fast.  Before, I had so many planned social engagements and telephone calls, but so little time.

I’m not sure what happened to all of those social engagements.  I think that I have fallen off of a lot of invite lists because I have declined too many times.  Apparently the rest of the world was still living and partying while I was pregnant, giving birth and learning to be a mom.  My blog follower Anthony Stemke (http://gritsandgroceries.blogspot.com)  says that I am a very good mom.  That’s one of the things I enjoy about blogging.  You make contacts with people who validate you.  Seeing how I haven’t had another performance appraisal for my mom job, I am going with Andrew’s assessment!

Back to the time thing.  Now, I no longer just lament how fast weekends fly.  I am also increasingly amazed at how fast entire weeks and months just zoom by in a blink of an eye.  I think it’s the breastfeeding, pumping, diaper changing, baby baths, cleaning sweet potatoes off of the floor after they have been flung by a toddler who has reached her limit.  There are also my daily appearances at work, board meetings, and my need to bathe and feed myself.  As my mom says, motherhood is more than a notion!

Anyway, in case the end of January has snuck up on you too, I thought I’d point out that there are less than 48 hours left in the first month of 2012.  Where did the time go?! 

If you are behind on your goals/resolutions/plans like I am.  You better hurry up! Then again, let’s make a pact and resolve not to beat ourselves up about coming in late on a few of our goals.  We may have been delayed because of something wonderful like watching our child walk for the first time, playing blocks or reading stories.  Time flies so you have to be sure to catch those special moments.

Here’s to February! 

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K. Elizabeth @ YUMMommy said…
It is hard to believe that this month is pretty much gone. If this is any indication of how fast this year is going to fly by then I'm trying to keep a camera handy to capture every moment.
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Diane - It's All Good Until You Burn Dinner said…
Bathe and feed yourself? Maybe some day. I think I finally took the first shower I'd had in 12 years when my son started middle school.

Okay...it's not that bad but YES. Raising children is such a busy time and it does indeed go so fast. Unbelievably fast...

Enjoy every minute.
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