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Greetings from Chaton's World in Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania! My days often start with laundry, early-morning emails, and making my kids a hot breakfast. They often end with late-night homework checks, making Instagram reels, and appearing on Celebrity Court of Public Opinion. Somewhere in between, I’m navigating boardrooms, working towards deadlines, and immersed in the good, bad, and ugly chaos of motherhood and household management. As a working mom of three and a professional carving out space in corporate environments, I share my journey of balancing leadership with loving my family, and I sprinkle it with self-care tips. Here, you’ll find honest reflections, hard-earned lessons, and practical strategies for creating an authentic life that you enjoy. If you’re trying to do it all without losing yourself in the process, you have found your sister in the struggle!  Continue reading to discover some thoughts, hacks, and/or lessons that I have learned from navigating my world.

Working Mom Tip: Breastfeeding May Get Your Kid Into Harvard

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A recent study has linked breastfeeding to a higher IQ. So, if you needed more reason to breastfeed beyond the peer pressure, Joint Commission encouragement, immediate economic benefits, convenience and ability to bond with your baby, here's another one. 

I'll also do you one better the study also attributes long term breastfeeding to higher wages and more education. That means if you breastfeed you breastfeed your babies longer they will be more likely to earn more money, which means that they will leave your house as adults. As someone who is breastfeeding her second child right now it pains me to think of my children leaving the house ever. However, I know that feeling will change in about 18 years.

Here's a link to an article discussing the study in detail, Breastfeeding 'linked to higher IQ'


The health benefits of breastfeeding are real


Please do not send me hate messages about how some women cannot breastfeed or how you didn't breastfeed and your kids are fine. I recognize that some women are unable to breastfeed. Some women in my own family were unable to do so. If you are/were one of those women I understand and do not judge you, despite what happened to the woman that wrote that popular Washington Post article last year. To read it, click here

That said, breastfeeding as a public health issue is bigger than the challenges experienced by a subset of women. People with certain medical conditions are unable to eat green leafy vegetables. Despite that, we tend to accept the general message which is that people should eat their vegetables especially the green leafy kind because they lots of health benefits. People say, "eating vegetables is good for you" and nobody bats an eye or goes into lengthy explanations about how they know somebody who can't eat them and so we shouldn't encourage everyone else to eat them.

The same is true of breastfeeding. If you are the exception, feed your baby formula without apology. However, do not criticize those who are proponents of breastfeeding. It has lots of health benefits.

Are you a working mom struggling with how to work and breastfeed? If so, let me know.

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