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Everyone used to believe that you had to sell your soul and sacrifice your soul and sanity in order to work at a law firm, but that may not be true anymore...
Successful working women keep track of important matters in
the news. However, we are not one-dimensional. Some of us also want to keep up
with celebrity gossip and fashion news too. Even in the era of the Internet and
24 hour news shows and E!, it can be challenging to keep up with everything.
Fortunately for you, I make it my job to keep up on articles
of interest to working moms and when I find notable ones, I share them with
you. The one below is a about a family friendly law firm.
Having a Family and Practicing Law Used to Be Impractical
When I began practicing law over ten years ago, finding a
family friendly law firm was about as likely as finding a unicorn walking down
the street. It was something that played out in fairy tales but nobody actually
expected to find one. Nobody believed it was even possible to have a family
friendly law firm. After all, the law is a client service business. And clients
are demanding. Failure to meet your clients' expectations was akin to career
suicide.
Everyone understood that you had to sell your soul and sacrifice your soul and sanity in order to work at a law firm. That understanding motivated me to leave law firm practice as soon as I could. While it is possible, I don't know whether I would have been able to create the memory in the above photo with my daughter had I remained in firm practice.
Everyone understood that you had to sell your soul and sacrifice your soul and sanity in order to work at a law firm. That understanding motivated me to leave law firm practice as soon as I could. While it is possible, I don't know whether I would have been able to create the memory in the above photo with my daughter had I remained in firm practice.
One Family Friendly Law Firm Is Changing the Paradigm
This week, the New York Times ran an article about a female
owned law firm that is committed to helping their staff work full time while being
completely present for their families. The article was entitled, A
Woman-Led Law Firm That Lets Partners Be Parents. The
attorneys in the article created their own firm in order to allow them to raise
their children and to be full participants in their families lives. Many of the
female partners made it work by outsourcing their home responsibilities and/or
having stay-at-home spouses.
Make no mistake. those options make it easier to work and
have a family. However, they relegate the mom to a manager. That may work for
some women. However, it does little to help women figure out how to do both.
Even Sheryl Sandberg admits that part of the problem with convincing women to
"lean in" is that we tend to place a higher value on spending time
with our children. If that is true, the outsource and stay-at-home spouse
option may leave a lot of women feeling unfulfilled.
As a working mom who is an attorney, I am encouraged and
inspired by this firm and the attention its family friendly practices has
garnered. Change is made one employer at a time. Kudos to this lawyers for
having the courage to try something different.
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