A Secret to Success This New Year: Become Committed and Resilient

Mom and son celebrating the new year in the Bahamas in 2025! "Our greatest glory is not in never falling, but in rising every time we fall." – Confucius Greetings from Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania ! Things have been busy. I am still a working mom of three , working full time who is trying to make a difference. I do a lot of things and try to be present so that I can learn from them. I share them on this blog so that we can learn together. Below are some thoughts, hacks, and/or lessons that I have learned from navigating my world. 2025 was intense. I faced a convergence of pressures: the stress of navigating life as a single mom while paying considerable  alimony ,  an intensifying family situation since we lost my beloved aunt, my dad, and my cousin’s mom—work related stress—learning a new job after an imposed job change, all while navigating the rapid pace of raising my kids and trying to maintain a standard of living for them with fewer resources. Together, these factor...

Friday Tip: Enjoy a Cheap Date Night at Eddie Merlot's


At Eddie Merlot's
Sometimes, working moms need fun and a night away from there kids. And for me, nothing beats getting dressed up, going to a nice restaurant and having a martini--a Belvedere martini, straight up with three olives. I have learned that steak houses make the best martinis and one of the best ones around is Eddie Merlot's.


We've frequented Eddie Merlot's quite a few times and they never disappoint. One of the cool things about it is that Eddie Merlot's is a steak house that was decorated with women in mind. So, it's got great decor and great food! Currently, they are offering a three course special. I recommend that you check it out.

You can thank me later!









Cheap, Sophisticated, Date Night


Spring Prix Fixe - 3 Course Menu $39.95

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