One Secret to Success as a Working Mom: Stay Open to New Experiences

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In the movie Love Jones , the male lead says, "romance is about the possibility of the thing." I agree with that. However, I think that the concept is more universal. life--truly living--is about the possibility of the thing. For a while, I was sleep walking through life, doing what was required without truly embracing it. Recent events have caused me to re-evaluate that and to embrace life and all of its limitless possibilities.   And romance, is about love. Over the past year I have become committed to falling back in love with my life. New relationships have made that love affair possible. And, I don't take them for granted. Creating space for new relationships and making new friends as a single, working mom, and creating space is not easy. But it is necessary. For that reason, I have committed to making new friendships, keeping the old productive ones, and enjoying them all--in the midst of working, parenting, and adulting . I have learned that I have not experien...
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A Secret to Working Mom's Success: Stay Focused

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A calm day...


Greetings from Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania! Things have been busy. I am still a working mom of three, working full time who is trying to make a difference. I do a lot of things and try to be present so that I can learn from them. I share them on this blog so that we can learn together. Below are some thoughts, hacks, and/or lessons that I have learned from navigating my world.

Today's lesson was, stay focused.


(This post was in the archives and not posted but the lessons remain salient.)

Like most working moms, I get by through a series of decisions.  

Sometimes I am jealous of the bloggers who seem to have their lives staged to create blog posts that portray their lives as full of family, fun, punctuated by great fashion sense. Not only is my life not staged, my life keeps lifeing, and surprises, hiccups, and accidents occur. I don't know about other bloggers but that is how my life rolls. 

If you follow me on social media you may be thinking. She generally looks put together and does some cool things. And that is true. My life does have its fair share of glossy images and cool things. And when my posts portray that life, it is my truth at that moment. That said, my life sometimes includes endless piles of laundry, incomplete things to-do lists, and exploding eggs...

Today while upstairs getting my kids ready for the day I heard an animal rummaging down below. I instantly went into "super mommy mode". I projected confidence and strength and went to investigate. I couldn't let the kids know how terrified I was about what I might find. The truth is, some people love animals and I tolerate them. So, believing that an uninvited one was in my kitchen tops my list of worst things that could possibly happen.

When I got downstairs, instead of finding an animal I found a pot sizzling, eggs that had exploded, and the smell of burnt eggs. Then, I remembered. Before deciding to get the kids ready, I decided to boil eggs for our nightly salad. Well, I burnt the eggs. They exploded and stunk up the house.

There really isn't more to say except, sometimes, "Exploding Eggs" happen.

Better luck next time!





Location: Pittsburgh, PA, USA

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